How to host a speed dating event
Following approximately four minutes of conversation, a bell is rung, the men proceed to the next lady, and another four-minute speed date begins. Following each speed date, participants mark on a card whether they would have an interest in meeting their date again.If a mutual interest is noted, meaning that the person you have picked has also picked you, the organizers provide each party with the other's contact information (email and nickname). You arrange to meet and start getting to know each other.Three others cited sickness and a work obligation, and one was a no-show. When I consider why the concept attracted me so, and look back at the several men I met and dated—briefly—while serving as EO, it becomes clearer.This is when life takes a funny (in hindsight) turn, leaving me with too many men. And although the men were as friendly and talkative as I had hoped they would be, the majority of them thought it appropriate to tell their dates that they were attending for free. Let me tell you, the women had a hard time seeing my side of this story. I was a fan of the eight-minute date because that is what worked for me.
“This indicates to me that they were not seriously looking to meet anyone and they were just there because it was a free evening. To those of you newly looking, or still looking, or in the midst of packing up your bells and staplers, I say: Keep an open mind.At the end of the event, participants write down the names of anyone they are interested in; if there is a match, the host will forward contact information to both people within a day or so.With the proper tools, planning and executing a successful speed dating night can be both exciting and fulfilling. A group of singles gathers at a cafe or similar venue.Armed with a nametag with a nickname, a scorecard and their sparkling personality, they are paired up and their first date begins.