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Some women report masturbating anally on their own or engaging in anal penetration with female partners, meaning it is possible to achieve pleasure from anal sex that has nothing to do with the involvement of men.Then there are women like me who self-identify as masochists and for whom anal sex is enjoyable precisely because it is an act of suffering.First of all, the fact that I say I enjoy anal sex should be enough for you to believe me.
So yeah, I vote with my vag in cases like those and instead choose to fuck people who are more comfortable with themselves, which is my prerogative as well as the author’s in selecting our respective partners.
Another complaint the original Urban Dater author had was that many guys subscribe to a double-standard regarding anal penetration.
“I know men that freak out when people even joke about going near their anal cavity,” she writes, “yet have no problem encouraging a woman to take it up the ass.” I actually tend to agree with her on this particular gripe, although I believe there is a far more complex system at work here for which it is not entirely fair to blame men as individuals.
Men are held to such rigid standards of masculinity that often imply that any behavior that might appear “gay” or “feminine,” such as being the penetratee rather than the penetrator, is a threat to their very status as a man.
That’s particularly fucked up when you think about it because it means men are being conditioned to fear one of their own body parts.