Dating and separated men
As a counter measure, many men deceptively list their marital status as divorced instead of separated in order to avoid this inevitable kiss of death.
Separated women, however, play by a much different set of rules.
The problem is, oftentimes they don’t know that they are even part of a game until it’s too late because they have either been out of the game for so long or, like myself, were never in the game at all because I married young.
Instead of playing, these women end up getting played.
), he bolts and uses HER separated status as the excuse. The only thing she can do – SHE breaks it off with him (for now). Because it’s never what he wanted, not for the long haul anyhow.
While dating can be a challenging and confusing time for anyone, adding a man who is separated, but still married, can make things even more complicated.
This might mean that you go on dates in another town or do not go out to many public places.But be honest with him if you feel you cannot meet those expectations, especially if he expresses that he has no desire to ever marry again and that is a goal for you.Kimberly Turtenwald began writing professionally in 2000.Listen to him about what went wrong in his marriage and what he expects to be different the next time around.Be willing to work on yourself if he needs something from you.